Like a few others, I was also slightly uncomfortable while watching Orlando. I really wanted to put him into a category of either male or female, but found this difficult to do because of his androgynous nature and the fact that he changed sexes. Because I was not able to “categorize” him, I felt uncomfortable and confused. I think it is typical of society to want to categorize everyone as either male or female, and when someone does not embody the typical stereotypes of either a man or woman, we struggle and become frustrated that they do not fit into one of these categories. As a society, I think we understand that there is a difference between sex and gender, but why are we not recognizing this difference? A person does not have to follow the stereotypes of their sex or embody the typical characteristics associated with their sex, yet we often feel extremely uncomfortable when they don’t. Why do we so strongly want to categorize everyone into one of two categories? And when there are so many different aspects of gender, why do we attempt to restrict a person to one of only two categories?
Also, the fact that the role of the queen was played by a man also intrigued me. Is this the director’s way of suggesting that power is typically associated with men? This led me to then think about the king in The Left Hand of Darkness. The King is always referred to as “he” but really he is androgynous. In addition to this, it is quite possible that he has taken on the role of a woman during previous kemmers, yet he is still always portrayed as a man. Is this again because power is seen as something only given to men? Would we think differently about the king if he were in fact a queen?